80 Post Challenge – Post 65


What comes to mind when someone uses the phrase prolonging the magic?


That’s a nice easy one. I think of preserving the innocence of children. Or anyone for that matter.

The world is a big, bad and scary place, even if you’re treating it right. Children, who have no idea of what it is really like, need to be protected as long as possible. Not to the point that they don’t experience anything – that’s stupid and ultimately counter-productive – but so that they can afford to stay children for as long as they need to. Every child will have a different rate of growth, or a different level of maturity, even against their immediate peers. Forcing maturity on them too early is not only frightening, but horribly cruel and unfair.

I don’t necessarily mean like preserving the myth of Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy either, I mean things like not sending your kids off to work (even if they’re the cutest little things in the world and would make brilliant stars of this [insert generic name here] new TV show), or forcing them to look after younger siblings because you are too busy/drunk/drugged up to do so yourself.

I mean things like sharing a cuddle with them when they graze their knee instead of insisting that they ‘suck it up.’

Something Dave still does with his youngest, is put on silly voices for objects in the house or while we’re out driving, and she’s nine now! All traffic lights, for instance, are Mexican (I don’t know why Mexican; you’ll have to ask him!) and have rather silly conversations with us until its time to drive on. Josie giggles like a loon every time; she loves it!

That’s the sort of magic I’m talking about. The ability to look at the world and see it as fresh, clean, new and something to experience and be fascinated by, rather than something to fight against or be afraid of. Because let’s face it, the world is an amazing place and, as adults, its only because we’ve gotten so busy and wrapped up in being ‘grown ups’ that we forget that and loose the ability to see it.

If they had the vocabulary, skill and inclination for it, children would make incredible fantasy writers; because they have the ability to see things like none of the rest of us can. That’s the magic that needs to be prolonged.

 

 

 

 

My 80 Post Challenge is brought to you with help from Tom Slatin’s 80 Journal Writing Prompts.

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The ‘Ileandra Young Brand’


Well first of all, what the hell is a brand? How do you define it?

This is what dictionary.com has to say on the subject…
Verb: Mark with a branding iron.
Synonyms: stigmatize – stamp – mark

Noun: A type of product manufactured by a company under a particular name.
Synonyms: mark – stamp – sort – kind – make – trademark

Wikipedia says: The American Marketing Association defines a brand as a “Name, term, design, symbol, or any other feature that identifies one seller’s good or service as distinct from those of other sellers.”

Well I’m not talking about slapping my name on the arse of a cow with a hot iron, so I can safely say that its the noun I’m talking about and that the American Marketing Association has a pretty good grip on what I’m trying to do. Not that I need a logo particularly (though if someone could redesign the bat-signal for me that would be AWESOME!!!), or a symbol, but I need to establish my work and my name as something that I can sell.

At first that sounds terrible – even to me! – but everyone working towards ‘success’ has done the same in some form or another. The examples I would use are Stephanie Meyer and JK Rowling. I know I talk about these guys a lot, but surely its obvious why? JK Rowling is a brand in her own right, slap Harry Potter onto that and 1) everybody knows who and what you’re talking about, 2) everyone knows what to expect and 3) everyone knows where to go to get books/films/cheesy kid’s merchandise. Its the same with Stephanie Meyer and the Twilight franchise. No longer are they just the names of people, but they are brands and, going forward both women, for good or ill, will depend on what they have built, to continue their way forward.

I don’t for a second assume that I will become as successful as these two. Of course reaching for the stars, positivity and all that junk are all well and good, but realistic expectations also need to be considered. So… I can hope for a loyal cluster of followers/readers who may read whatever I publish and tell their friends about it. And, frankly put, that’s more than awesome in my eyes.

The point of this post is to pose the following question; how does one create/build/grow a brand? There are lots (seriously, lots! I’ve been researching) websites and ‘how tos’ on the subject, but most of my searches seem to bring up information designed for up and coming companies. Not that the same principles can’t be applied here.

Josh Dunlop says a good brand will:

  • Deliver your companies message in a clear and concise manner
  • Connect you with the customer and motivate them to revisit you
  • Increase your credibility

From the bottom up, credibility is very important for a writer. Nobody who spends hours of their lives slaving away with their words and murdering their darlings wants to be passed over as a time waster or a fake. They certainly don’t want to be clumped with those who believe that writing a book is something they can do on the side, knocked up in a month or two because it would be a ‘cool thing to do.’ Writers want to be taken seriously, so one needs their brand to be associated with high quality work.
…Okay, makes sense.

Connecting to the customer, or in my case, my readers, is incredibly important too. I want to show people how much they want want to come back and see what I might do next. Pick up my next novel or that anthology I might have a short story written in. Not only that, but when these people come back, its likely that they’ll bring friends with them. What more do I need to say? That can only be a good thing.

My message is something that’s a bit harder. I don’t think I have a ‘message’ as such, rather I have a very strong desire to share my stories with people who will enjoy them. That’s all. Oh, and I happen to like writing them. So I think this point, from a writer’s perspective, is far more about learning who I am, why I do as I do and then being able to express that in a manner that people can understand. Its important to show, for instance, that its not about money, or fame, but about release. Writing is therapeutic to me; its pulled me through some difficult times and began in early school when I was less than happy with what was happening around me. Writing stories, in whatever form is a part of who I am as a person; someone who recounts a trip to Tescos with verve and relish because there is a tale in it.

Hmm… I think I’ve hit the babbling stage now, but hopefully, rather than just confusing you, I’ve been able to highlight what I think makes a writer’s brand. What about you? Is this a question you’ve tackled for yourselves yet? Or is it not important to you at all? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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Bonus Blog: Catching Up


Now there’s a post title I’ll probably use over and over again in the next few weeks!

I’m sure you all recall that having recently come into the family way (hehee) I’ve been making use of the timed post feature the WordPress offers. This means that most of these posts were written before I ended up in the hospital, with the occasional bonus blog (like this one) written as and when.
Well the knock on effect of that is that with limited time to knock up new stuff there are certain bits and pieces that have been missed.

Reader Appreciation AwardOne if those things is thanking Vanessa Grassi for kindly nominating me for the Reader Apreciation Award.
I’m always touched and pleased when sometime thinks of me in such a way and this is no exception. A gift most unexpected but very much appreciated.

Versatile BloggerThen while watching Eurovision (I know, I know, don’t hate me) I got a twitter message from Roberta Gordon over at Gemini Witching advising she’s nominated me for the Versatile Blogger Award.
To say I’m thrilled is a wild understatement; finding myself in a position where I need to play catch up with not one but two awards!

Well I’m still not quite in a position to write up these awards properly, but I will say thank you both (very, very much!) for your nominations and I’ll get to work on my bit as soon as things are less crazy here.

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Six Sentence Sunday 27/05 #16


Last Sunday of May and its been a great month! I’m really getting into the swing of them now, and loving the fantastic range available through the myriad selection of other authors.

Anyway… hail…! Another post of Six Sentence goodness to take us through Sunday!

This piece from my A-Z of flash fiction is ‘G’ and the trigger word was Gate. I’d love to know what you think.

~Sandra struggles to make a decision with the questionable advice from two close associates…

“What’s to think about?” Red Man interrupted my musings again with another of his characteristic grunts. “Go that way and its all boring harp singing, soups and cloud surfing. Come this way and its pizza all night, rock music and as much sex as you could possibly want.”
I frowned. “I’m dead; what good does any of that stuff do me?!”

That’s me done for this week. I’ll invite you now to hit the the banner link below. It will take you to the list of other Six Sunday participants and I highly recommend checking out what they’re up to. 🙂

Six Sentence Sunday

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80 Post Challenge – Post 64


Write about the last time you spoke to your best friend. What did you talk about?


Best friend? You mean I only get one?! Hmmm. Okay… well I’m lucky enough to have more than one ‘best friend.’ There is a small cluster of people that I would trust with anything and everything and they are my best friends (and yes this includes people like my mum and Dave). Though… I suppose… since there is one person that I see not quite so often as the others, I’ll talk the last time she and I met up.

Gemma and I in town eating churros!Gemma. Lovely, lovely Gemma, who is, in truth, my oldest friend. We began as penpals at about 9 or 10 years old and have just stuck to each other since then. We also continue to write to each other by snail mail (because its fun to get stuff through the post that isn’t a bill!) and do most of our conversing that way.

However, once in a while we do get to meet up and now, more than ever, these meetings are important to me. Though this post will go live once my babies are breathing the free air, I can tell you that at the time of writing, it had been ages since I last saw her. Letters were still firing back and forth, of course (on a wide selection of very puuurdy writing paper), but seeing someone and getting a hug is so much more fulfilling than a letter, you know?

So we met and of course, there was talk of the bump. Unsurprising, since at that point it was stupidly large and managed to wedge itself into everything, even if I didn’t want it to (just turning around had to be carefully negotiated in certain shops in case I knocked something over). And catch up. Funny how much there is to say even with the frequency of the letters we send back and forth. Talk of siblings, close relatives, jobs, holidays past and to come, food, my ex… only because we saw him in town with his current girlfriend and I realised at that point that Gemma hadn’t meant him. Celine, who was also with us, has met him, but its startling to realise that the gaps between when Gemma and I meet means that though I would have talked about him, she would never have met him in person. Weird.

Anyway, it was a thoroughly pleasant day, made better by lunch at Nandos for the three of us, mooching through the World Market (woo ostrich burgers!) and eating copious amounts of chocolate and sugar covered churros. Lord… even thinking about it now makes me feel a tiny bit sick! o.O
Churros en vasos en Londres - A Taste of Spain

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